LIGHT UP YOUR DIY IMAGINATION

Celebrate the big day with the perfect words using our toolkits for your vows, wedding ceremony, or speech.

We’ve packed our years of experience — helping folks just like you — into these step-by-step guides to writing your own wedding words. Download and get started today!

For the Happy Couple, A Unique Ceremony & Wedding Vows

Toolkits & Ready-to-Go Wedding Toasts & Speeches
Whether you're the maid of honor, the best man, or a member of the wedding party who's been privileged with the task of delivering a toast, we've got you covered. Our speeches can also work for the father of the bride, the mother of the groom, or anyone poised to give a heartfelt speech on this special day. Say goodbye to the stress of crafting the perfect words; with our help, you can confidently raise your glass and shine at the wedding!

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What’s the difference between all these toolkits and speeches? 

Great question! You might have noticed that we can help you with all the wedding words — the ceremony, your wedding vows, the Best Man speech, and the Maid of Honor speech.

The Best Man, Maid of Honor, and Wedding Vows Toolkits walk you through the process of brainstorming, writing, editing, and practicing your own speech using one of the two template speeches or vows we’ve provided.

Our Ceremony Toolkit is similar but has one full-length ceremony (about twenty minutes, depending on how fast your officiant speaks) with pointers all along the way as to how to customize, personalize, and truly make it your own. We’ve also provided different options for unique add-ons and alternative readings, along with some tips for your officiant.

In addition to our toolkits, we also have our ready-to-go speeches that — while they have some room for personalization — can also be downloaded, customized, and delivered on the same day if necessary. Though we do recommend you give yourself at least a couple of days so you’re familiar with the speech.

What’s included in these toolkits?

We’ve covered everything you need to create the perfect ceremony or write your own vows/speech.

All of the downloads include both a PDF ebook with detailed instructions and a Word document so that you can start writing quickly and easily.

Here’s a little more information on what’s included in each download:

Wedding Vows, Best Man & Maid of Honor Toolkits

• FAQs covering everything from timing to etiquette

• Our brainstorming process with plenty of questions to generate useful stories and memories

• Two complete template vows/speeches to customize to your heart's content

• We walk you through editing what you’ve written

• Finally, we have some tips for practicing for the big day

• If you’re short on time, we’ve also included our “last-minute guide” to writing your speech/vows

• As an added bonus we’ve provided a couple of examples to inspire your writing process

Wedding Ceremony Toolkit

• One complete ceremony with plenty of fill-in-the-blanks for you to personalize it

• Our commentary in the sidebar to help you with this personalization

• Plenty of options for alternative readings, different ring exchanges, and fun additions

• We’ve also included some tips for the officiant and answers to common questions

Speeches: Disney-Themed & Nature-Themed

• Each download has a customizable speech with tips on how to personalize it throughout

• Alternative quotes so you can swap out for options that are perfect for the couple

• Speech coaching tips to focus on as you're giving your speech and to think about as you prepare

When do I get access?

You'll receive an email immediately after your purchase, giving you the link to download the entire toolkit, complete with the PDF ebook and Word document.

How do I know if these toolkits are for me?

• You have some ideas but need help getting them organized

• You’re not sure where to start but it’s important that your speech/vows/ceremony be personal and unique

• You’re ready to do it yourself but the blank page is too much to go at it alone

• You’re ready to get started writing, right now!

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